BETAFPV Order Delays: Issues with Backorder and Shipping Policy

BETAFPV troubles:

I made a huge purchase from BETAFPV (800cad) assuming itd take 3-5 weeks as per the website. thought id get a month of flight in before taking it to the Dominican. After my label not being created for 10days I email them. Its on backorder. They did not tell me when I was buying or after. Their policy says Id get an email if it was. They took the money + want me to wait 2 weeks before fulfillment and then 30 for shipping (they did not offer expedited) this feels like shit practice. Is this kinda stuff standard?

In my naivety I asked if due to the delays, failure to notify and size of purchase I can get it as expedited shipping (alternative is going with a brand that actually shows the stock count) will see where it goes